No One Can Mistreat You Unless You Stay & Allow Them - Ik Ogbonna's Wife, Sonia Tells Women
Read what she wrote below...
"It makes me sick to know that there is more women then men out there advising ladies,fellow sisters,mothers and daughters,to "try and make their marriage work" and "stay" by their husband's side due domestic violence or any form of disrespect or mistreatment. No marriage is perfect (I know you were about to say that bish) but there are things that are most definitely NOT considered as "usual" marriage crisis. Your mom didn't carry u for 9 months with so much love and care for you to become some else's punching bag. "Stay for the sake of your children" - if I hear that again!! All of you "wise advisers",please tell me,how can a child EVER grow into a normal,mentally and emotionally stable adult after being traumatized with such a terrible experience such as witnessing a domestic violence at his home?? For that sake I will tell you LEAVE BECAUSE OF YOUR CHILDREN if nothing else. Stop making women feel like they were destined to suffer!!! No!! You were meant to be loved and cherished,no matter where you come from,not humiliated,disrespected and unappreciated! phyuk SOCIETY!!!! Your life MATTERS !!! NO ONE CAN MISTREAT YOU UNLESS YOU STAY AND ALLOW THEM!!!! #soniaogbonna #IAmMySistersKeeper"